Showing posts from January, 2014

Words have power

Few things hurt worst than someone you love telling you, what you are NOT. Ineffective communication can ruin a relationship. So do u...
 1) Opt out of sharing your feelings because you don’t want to risk losing the relationship.   or do you say 2)The relationship is flawed and unproductive if I can't assume the responsibility of being honest with the other person.
I’m both of those people. I think we all are. It’s the ‘Pick your battles’ thing and it’s the ‘I love you so I’m going to require you to be better’ thing.As I position myself to write this entry I realize that it’s NOT what you say, It’s how you say it.
I dated a guy once who in the middle of an argument said 
’You are no different from any of the other actors, your walk will be like everyone else’s walk...' We broke up, lol. I spent a lil over a year in that relationship and he and I were friends for a few years prior to but my point is. Of all that time, I REMEMBER MOST, HIM TELLING ME WHAT I WAS NOT.Of course, a…